fix(uploads): graceful fallback for browser-unplayable video (HEVC .mov)

macOS screen recordings are HEVC inside a .mov container, which Chromium,
Firefox and stock Electron can't decode. The file uploaded fine and a
server-side ffmpeg poster was generated, but inline <video> playback failed
silently — stuck at 0:00 with no error, since AttachmentRenderer had no error
handling. Root cause: the system had no concept of web-playability.

Server detects, client degrades:
- mediaPlayable.ts: classifyVideoPlayable(mimetype, codec) — tri-state
  (false = known-undecodable e.g. HEVC/ProRes, true = web codec in web
  container, null = unknown/optimistic). Never widens `false` beyond codecs
  that fail everywhere, so ffmpeg-less instances keep prior behaviour.
- probeMediaMeta now captures the video codec_name; the upload finish hook
  stores the verdict in the new attachments.playable column (migration 0007).
- Flag propagated through every serializer: space messages, DMs, WS, and
  federation relay (outbound + inbound) — federation-compatible.
- VideoAttachment component: playable===false renders a download card (poster
  + "Can't play here — download" + name/duration/size) with no dead-player
  flash; otherwise plays inline with an onError fallback to the same card.

Specs updated: uploads.md, database.md, federation.md.

packages/server/drizzle/meta/_journal.json

@@ -50,6 +50,13 @@
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       "breakpoints": true
+    },
+    {
+      "idx": 7,
+      "version": "6",
+      "when": 1782832912087,
+      "tag": "0007_nervous_orphan",
+      "breakpoints": true
     }
   ]
 }