Four fixes addressing the full state management problem:
1. Passive ready handler: no longer auto-connects to LiveKit on
page refresh. Prevents identity conflicts when the same user
has multiple sessions fighting for one LiveKit identity slot.
The user must re-accept to join; state is shown but not acted on.
2. SoundController sync guard: incomingCallLoading/outgoingCallLoading
refs prevent multiple playSound calls during async audio load.
If call is cancelled while sound loads, stops it immediately on
completion. Eliminates the "5 ringtones at once" bug.
3. Host dm_call_accepted broadcasts now include federatedCallId so
all clients (including remote instances) can match the event.
4. Removed all diagnostic console.log statements.