New FederationPresenceUpdatePayload + queuePresenceRelay() helper. Five WS
sites now project the native user's status (and optional activities) to all
active peers via the outbox: WS auth-success, finalizeDisconnect,
manual presence_update, activity_update, showActivity-toggle clear.
Outbox-only (no mutation-log entry) — presence is ephemeral; the upcoming
peer-activation hook re-emits a fresh snapshot so peers recovering from
unreachable converge without history replay. No-op for replicated users.
Jannis Braun