Two new inline sections in the user-facing federation/connections settings
panel: 'Recent peering outcomes' (terminal-state notifications with
Retry-for-approved + Dismiss) and 'Pending peering approvals' (active
subscriber rows the user is waiting on, with Cancel). New WS handlers for
peering_subscription_changed and peering_notification_received refresh the
lists in real-time and surface a transient toast for online users. Retry
deep-link for friend_add prefills the friend-add input with the original
target handle (other reasons get Dismiss only — the gate doesn't wire
those paths yet).
