fix: federated spaces in folders + DnD double indicator line

Remove FK constraint on space_folder_members.space_id so federated
space IDs (which don't exist in the local spaces table) can be added
to folders without silently failing. Add migration to recreate the
table for existing databases and explicit cleanup on space deletion.

Offset drop indicator lines by 3px into the mb-1.5 gap so adjacent
items share one visual position instead of showing two lines.

Extract TransferOwnershipModal (~165 lines) to its own file.

packages/server/src/db/schema.ts

@@ -191,7 +191,7 @@ export const spaceFolders = sqliteTable('space_folders', {
 
 export const spaceFolderMembers = sqliteTable('space_folder_members', {
   folderId: text('folder_id').notNull().references(() => spaceFolders.id, { onDelete: 'cascade' }),
-  spaceId: text('space_id').notNull().references(() => spaces.id, { onDelete: 'cascade' }),
+  spaceId: text('space_id').notNull(), // No FK — federated space IDs don't exist locally
   position: integer('position').default(0),
 }, (table) => ({
   pk: primaryKey({ columns: [table.folderId, table.spaceId] }),