fix: eliminate screen share audio feedback loop + upgrade Electron 33→40

Screen sharing with audio captured the app's own voice playback, causing
users to hear themselves echoed back. Fixed via two layers:

- Add restrictOwnAudio constraint (Chrome 141+/Chromium 144) to exclude
  the app's own audio from system audio capture
- Add shareAudio toggle so users can disable system audio entirely
- Remove outdated macOS audio block (now supported via ScreenCaptureKit)
- Upgrade Electron 33→40 (Chromium 130→144) so restrictOwnAudio works
  natively in the desktop app
- Add NSAudioCaptureUsageDescription for macOS 14.2+ audio capture
- Add GTK 3 fallback for Linux GNOME compatibility (Electron 36+)

packages/desktop/src/preload.ts

@@ -54,8 +54,8 @@ contextBridge.exposeInMainWorld('backspace', {
   onScreenShareSources: (callback: (sources: unknown[]) => void) => {
     ipcRenderer.on('screen-share-sources', (_event, sources) => callback(sources));
   },
-  selectScreenSource: (sourceId: string | null) => {
-    ipcRenderer.send('screen-share-selected', sourceId);
+  selectScreenSource: (sourceId: string | null, shareAudio?: boolean) => {
+    ipcRenderer.send('screen-share-selected', sourceId, shareAudio ?? true);
   },
 
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