feat: implement Phase 1 server-side federation groundwork

Add multi-instance support foundation: shared federation types
(ReplicatedInstance, InstanceInfoResponse, VerifyPasswordRequest),
database schema changes (home_instance, replicated_instances on users,
instance_name on settings), public instance info endpoint, auth
registration with homeInstance and username@domain collision fallback,
password verification endpoint, and replicatedInstances sync on user
profile. Extract duplicated sanitizeUser into shared utility across
8 server files.

packages/server/src/db/index.ts

@@ -23,6 +23,8 @@ function createTables(db: Database.Database): void {
       avatar TEXT,
       status TEXT DEFAULT 'offline',
       custom_status TEXT,
+      home_instance TEXT,
+      replicated_instances TEXT DEFAULT '[]',
       created_at INTEGER NOT NULL
     );
 
@@ -177,6 +179,7 @@ function createTables(db: Database.Database): void {
 
     CREATE TABLE IF NOT EXISTS instance_settings (
       id INTEGER PRIMARY KEY DEFAULT 1 CHECK (id = 1),
+      instance_name TEXT DEFAULT 'Backspace',
       max_bitrate_kbps INTEGER NOT NULL DEFAULT 20000,
       min_bitrate_kbps INTEGER NOT NULL DEFAULT 500,
       bitrate_step_kbps INTEGER NOT NULL DEFAULT 500,

packages/server/src/db/migrate.ts

@@ -54,6 +54,19 @@ export function runMigrations(db: Database.Database): void {
       columns: [
         { name: 'is_admin', type: 'INTEGER DEFAULT 0' }
       ]
+    },
+    {
+      name: 'users',
+      columns: [
+        { name: 'home_instance', type: 'TEXT' },
+        { name: 'replicated_instances', type: "TEXT DEFAULT '[]'" }
+      ]
+    },
+    {
+      name: 'instance_settings',
+      columns: [
+        { name: 'instance_name', type: "TEXT DEFAULT 'Backspace'" }
+      ]
     }
   ];
 

packages/server/src/db/schema.ts

@@ -9,6 +9,8 @@ export const users = sqliteTable('users', {
   status: text('status').default('offline'),
   customStatus: text('custom_status'),
   isAdmin: integer('is_admin').default(0),
+  homeInstance: text('home_instance'),
+  replicatedInstances: text('replicated_instances').default('[]'),
   createdAt: integer('created_at').notNull(),
 });
 
@@ -177,6 +179,7 @@ export const serverFolderMembers = sqliteTable('server_folder_members', {
 
 export const instanceSettings = sqliteTable('instance_settings', {
   id: integer('id').primaryKey().default(1),
+  instanceName: text('instance_name').default('Backspace'),
   maxBitrateKbps: integer('max_bitrate_kbps').notNull().default(20000),
   minBitrateKbps: integer('min_bitrate_kbps').notNull().default(500),
   bitrateStepKbps: integer('bitrate_step_kbps').notNull().default(500),