fix: resolve connectToRemote identity for federated users

Federated users (e.g. youruser@nova browsing orbit) could not add
instances via Settings → Connections because connectToRemote assumed
window.location.host was the home instance, producing a double-@ username
like youruser@nova.ddns.net@orbit.ddns.net that failed server
validation. Now derives trueHomeHost/bareUsername/trueHomeUserId from the
user's actual homeInstance fields and branches the auth flow: login-only
with bare username when targeting home, register with correct namespacing
for third-party remotes. Also skips profile sync to home instance since
it's the source of truth.

packages/web/src/stores/instanceStore.ts

@@ -163,18 +163,43 @@ export const useInstanceStore = create<InstanceState>((set, get) => ({
     set({ isLoading: true, error: null });
 
     try {
-      // Step 1: Verify password against HOME instance
+      // Step 1: Verify password against the instance we're currently browsing
       const { valid } = await api.users.verifyPassword(password);
       if (!valid) {
         throw new Error('Incorrect password');
       }
 
-      // Step 2: Try register on remote, then fall back to login
-      const homeInstance = window.location.host;
+      // Step 2: Compute the user's true home identity
+      // If we're a federated user (e.g. youruser@nova browsing orbit),
+      // homeInstance points to the real home, not window.location.host.
+      const trueHomeHost = currentUser.homeInstance ?? window.location.host;
+      const bareUsername = currentUser.username.includes('@')
+        ? currentUser.username.split('@')[0]!
+        : currentUser.username;
+      const trueHomeUserId = currentUser.homeUserId ?? currentUser.id;
+      const targetHost = new URL(origin).host;
+      const targetIsHome = targetHost === trueHomeHost;
+
       const tempClient = createApiClient(origin, () => null);
 
       let response: AuthResponse | null = null;
-      const finalUsername = `${currentUser.username}@${homeInstance}`;
+      let finalUsername: string;
+
+      if (targetIsHome) {
+        // Target IS the user's home instance — they already have a native account.
+        // Just login with bare username, no registration or homeInstance params.
+        finalUsername = bareUsername;
+        try {
+          response = await tempClient.auth.login({
+            username: bareUsername,
+            password,
+          });
+        } catch {
+          throw new DifferentPasswordError(bareUsername);
+        }
+      } else {
+        // Target is a remote/third-party instance — register as user@homeHost
+        finalUsername = `${bareUsername}@${trueHomeHost}`;
 
         // 2a: Attempt registration with namespaced username
         try {
@@ -182,8 +207,8 @@ export const useInstanceStore = create<InstanceState>((set, get) => ({
             username: finalUsername,
             password,
             displayName: displayName || currentUser.displayName || undefined,
-          homeInstance,
-          homeUserId: currentUser.id,
+            homeInstance: trueHomeHost,
+            homeUserId: trueHomeUserId,
           });
         } catch (err) {
           const message = (err as Error).message;
@@ -206,11 +231,12 @@ export const useInstanceStore = create<InstanceState>((set, get) => ({
             // Namespaced login failed — try legacy plain username as fallback
             try {
               response = await tempClient.auth.login({
-              username: currentUser.username,
+                username: bareUsername,
                 password,
               });
             } catch {
-            throw new DifferentPasswordError(currentUser.username);
+              throw new DifferentPasswordError(bareUsername);
+            }
           }
         }
       }
@@ -242,10 +268,13 @@ export const useInstanceStore = create<InstanceState>((set, get) => ({
       // Open WebSocket connection to the remote instance
       connectInstance(origin, response.token);
 
-      // Sync full home profile to new remote (fire-and-forget)
+      // Sync home profile to new remote (fire-and-forget).
+      // Skip when target is home — home is the source of truth for profile data.
+      if (!targetIsHome) {
         syncProfileToRemote(instance).catch((err) => {
           console.warn(`[ProfileSync] Initial sync to ${origin} failed:`, err);
         });
+      }
 
       // Sync instance list to all instances (fire-and-forget)
       get().syncInstanceList().catch(() => {});